by MoValley John » April 28th, 2011, 5:06 pm
Actually, a well run board is a little of both. You want to avoid every thread being highjacked, at the same time, a little give and take adds spice. A board that does not deviate into some ribbing and joking will die, just as a board that is so focused on basketball and not offending anyone will also die. Each extreme is equally bad.
A good message board is like grilling a fine steak. Without a little spice, it will be bland, too much and you ruin it. ValleyTalk was a fine steak that got smothered in steak sauce.
Moderating is a very difficult task. And however you chose to moderate, you are upsetting someone. Think of it as a steak, some like them rare, some well done. To me, the best steak is medium rare. But there will never be a concensus.