First off, apologies to glm38. Knowing your personal situation helps me understand your frustration better. You have a right to be upset. Healthcare workers have not been supported enough from the beginning. I am a pacifist at heart and I don't like conflict. That's my personal situation. Health care professionals have more right to speak on the issue than most, but even then, I can't imagine every nurse shares the same opinion.
One of the things that our government has failed to do from the start is to support health care workers. Anyone with foresight should have predicted a need for more healthcare professionals. The National Guard should have been called in fairly early on to alleviate staffing shortages. That would help in the short term, but in the long term, special programs and grants to train more nurses and/or waive the college loan debt of nursing professionals and those studying to enter those fields would have ensured we have a long term supply. Anyone working in the healthcare industry should have gotten an extra stimulus check as well IMHO. Hospitals should have gotten temporary support from the government to handle the situation. Really hospitals should always get extra funding from the government but that's another discussion entirely. They thought nothing of bailing out banks in 2008 and auto companies after that, why not a bailout for all the small town hospitals that have closed in the past twenty years. Those government supported hospitals could have gone a long way towards alleviating the shortage of beds. They lost money consistently, but they provided a bulwark against crisis. If the government really cared about the cost of health care, they'd keep more hospitals open on the public dime to act as a check on unrestricted corporate greed.
I don't blame the people on the front lines. I pray for them. I also don't blame Joe Everyman who's tired of wearing a mask two years later or John Q. Entrepreneur who is barely hanging on to his small business through shutdowns and mandates that hurt his ability to stay in business. Everybody is a victim here. Everyone is hurting and angry. Nobody needs to be crucified. I blame our so-called leaders the vast majority of whom are corporate cronies in bed with big business.